Regrets In The Past

Let's talk about true to life experiences. When a person is asked, "do you have any regrets in your past?" , often a person answers, "I don't have any regrets because those things that happened in my past were just products of my decisions." . WHAT A LiE ! No regrets ? Come on, let's accept the fact that we all have our own regrets and we're just so embarrassed to accept them because everything that happened was your own fault. You can't admit it that in some point of your life, you screwed up!

There's really nothing to be ashamed of. Mistakes are normal, and so are regrets. The important thing there is you've learned from them and that you'll never commit the same mistakes again. 

Regretting  is one of the signs that we've realized the wrong things that we've done and that we have learned from them. It pushes us to become a better person in the future. It gives us the courage to change ourselves and our lives. All we have to do is accept that once in our lives, we failed. And that once in our lives, we did something that we've regretted doing.

I was once one of those people who always says that I don't have any regrets in my past. But you know what ? I have my regrets. I sometimes say, "I should've not done it" or "I should've not said those words", and the worst, "I should've not been with those people." . I hid those regrets, forced myself to just forget them and move on. But I realized that as long as I don't accept having my own regrets, I won't be able to move on and live a better life.

It has not been very easy for me to accept this fact that I lived a life full of regrets. But as I went deeper and deeper in God's word, and as He helped me by giving me some people to support me and accept me no matter what my past might be, I am proud to say that my regrets have made me a better person.

Let us not always look on the negative side, let us also take a look at the brighter side of the picture. Let us always bear in mind that a life full of regrets can turn into a life full of wisdom only if we learn to accept that once in our lives, we failed.

God has His own plan. It is said to be beyond our understanding. So if you can't understand why you've made so many wrong decisions that caused you to regret so much, leave it all to God. For His plans are always way more better than ours.

KNOWiNG WHAT'S TRUE iS THE FiRST STEP iN KNOWiNG WHAT'S FALSE ;] learn to accept your failures and admit the things that you regret so you can live a better life in the future. Stop acting to be strong. Sometimes, all we have to do is accept that we have our weakness, breakdown and cry to be released from all our emotional chains. Nobody's perfect. Don't worry, you're not the only one who has regrets. We're here :)